(…by being a good person) 😜🤣**
Some people have a strange, bittersweet superpower:
the ability to always be present… until no one sees them anymore.
They are the ones who support, listen, care, and show up without being asked.
Those friends who hold everything together, but because they never fail, no one notices how much they do.
As Wayne Dyer would say:
“When you give from your heart, you never run out…
But when you give from exhaustion, you run out of yourself.”
And that’s where the irony begins.
The paradox of always being there
When you’re constant, kind, and always available,
people start believing it’s your responsibility.
Your time becomes background noise.
Your help becomes automatic.
Your love becomes “normal.”
You stop being a gift…
and you become 24/7 emotional customer service.
Louise Hay said it best:
“We were taught to be good,
but not to set boundaries.
Without boundaries, others decide your worth for you.”
And that’s how you slowly become invisible.
Not because you lack light—
but because you’re too available.
How to disappear… while being a good person
The formula is easy:
• Say yes to everything.
• Cancel your own plans.
• Be there for everyone.
• Never ask for anything.
• Be the therapist, the rescuer, the emotional Uber, the human Wi-Fi.
And voilà:
people stop appreciating you.
Because what becomes a habit… stops being seen.
The funny (and slightly cruel) part
When you finally get tired, breathe, and say,
“I can’t today,”
chaos erupts.
“What’s wrong with him?”
“Is she upset?”
“But he’s always here!”
And then comes the award-winning phrase for Best Dramatic Performance:
“I didn’t value you when I had you.” 🎊
Sweetheart…
you didn’t value me then, now, or ever.
The world according to modern ‘emotional evolution’
We live in strange times:
If you’re cold, people respect you.
If you’re distant, they chase you.
If you’re difficult, they adore you.
But if you’re kind, available, loving, and empathetic…
you become a doormat.
And Wayne Dyer nailed it:
“People will treat you the way you teach them to treat you.”
Louise Hay added:
“When you change, everything changes.”
So no, humanity isn’t lost…
it just needs us to stop giving our energy to those who don’t know how to receive it.
If you feel invisible today…
Don’t worry—
you haven’t disappeared.
Your heart is simply too bright for eyes that only see the superficial.
Louise Hay would hug you and remind you:
“You are enough.
You are worthy.
You are valuable right now—
without doing anything more for anyone.”
And Wayne Dyer would whisper:
“Your value doesn’t decrease because others fail to see it.”
Reflection
Being a good person isn’t the problem.
Forgetting yourself is.
Because the moment you take your own place,
start saying “I can’t,”
and honor your worth… you stop being invisible.
And the right people—those who match your soul—
will see you even in the dark.
Have you ever become ‘too available’?
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